Episode 128: Why can't you get to your priorities?


A client of mine broke her foot. Boot, crutches, six weeks, couldn't drive.

Suddenly she had more room for her priorities than she'd had in years. She still couldn't get to them. She needed rides and help, and she waited on whoever had room in their week to give it. Someone else was running her schedule.

That's an agency problem. Most prioritization advice treats every stall the same way, try harder, and that only fixes one of three.

Why it matters:

  • A priority doesn't rise unless something else in the stack comes down
  • You can't outwork a decision that isn't yours to make yet

What you'll learn:

  • How to tell an ability problem from a capacity problem from an agency problem
  • Why the same fix gets applied to all three, and what it costs
  • Where to start when someone else holds the decision

P.S. If you want to go deeper with your team, it's also in the pocket guide, The Right Things First; 74 small pages, about a 65-minute listen, because I left out the fluff and got straight to the point.

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